The documentary looks at how Epstein's wealth and power allowed him to abuse girls Credit: Netflix. It is only when other victims or their advocates reach out and confirm one’s abusive experiences by being able to relate to them that things start becoming clear to them. Robson recalls refusing Epstein's initial advances, after which he told her that if she brought her friends over, he'd give her $200. (Clinton denies ever having visited the island. However, relying on external support for too long without building one’s independence can work against victims, by adding to a victim mentality that often keeps them from healing. Most were no strangers to violence. That was not what was going to make me look employable- and that was not what was going to get me a job. They’d rarely speak many, if any, words of approval to us directly, though, because then they would risk letting it go to our heads and perhaps that would take away from their own, already fragile sense of achievement at having raised us well. In any case, it’s marketable. Abusers can validate certain aspects of our life, meet a number of our needs that they can easily identify, and then spend the rest of their time convincing us that what they are doing to us ‘on the side’ is not abuse at all. After being introduced to the concept of self-worth as inherent to healthy physical and emotional development by textbooks in college, I’ve been wondering how so many families could have imagined that we, as children, would learn to appreciate and love ourselves out of thin air. Abuse, in itself, could become a form of validation. Aside from these accounts of abuse and others that would surface now and again, scouting is only presented in a positive light- one that fits the narrative of the industry that uses it to attract the minds, bodies and skills of young people worldwide into a money-making web, that is certainly profitable for those who run it, but often do irreparable damage to those who work for them. As such stories tend to do, Filthy Rich unfolds as a frustrating tale of the flex of money, influence and power that allowed Epstein to do what he pleased with near impunity for so long. Fashionably Hypocritical: exposing the racist cultures of ‘inspirational’, ‘judgment-free’ and ‘sustainable’ fashion companies. Jeffrey Epstein, he was a guy who concealed his deviance very well—but he didn't conceal it that well. Escaping that would first imply the ability to validate one’s own experiences, and to distinguish between the positive and negative ones, which is usually out of reach for abuse victims. After that, she lived in a shelter home before her grandmother obtained legal custody of her. If they refused, he didn't seem to get mad, but rather told them to bring other friends to him and they'd still get paid. These people, we would repeatedly follow around, crawl in bed with, obey and trust, if we genuinely thought that they were our only chance at safety, stability and a future. Stunning but isolated and now chilling even in sun-soaked footage, the St. Thomas island of Little Saint James—or "Little Saint Jeff's," as Epstein referred to it—came to be dubbed, tabloid-style, "Pedophile Island.". To believe you. Read about in books, listened to on podcasts, watched on TV, heard it recited by therapists- it’s out there, alright, but it’s a tough one to let sink in when most of your growth has been done without it. He was eight. He was trying to make a case for proper citation, but that’s not all we heard. "I have seen people on the island that came for a lunch or a dinner and they didn't stay very long.". I was twenty-two at the time. Shawna Rivera ... Self - Survivor 4 episodes, 2020 Alan Dershowitz ... Self - Epstein's Former Attorney 4 episodes, 2020 Virginia Roberts Giuffre ... Self - Survivor 3 episodes, 2020 Courtney Wild ... Self - Survivor 3 episodes, 2020 After that, she lived in a shelter home before her grandmother obtained legal custody of her. "We had to prove that this pyramid of underage girls in Palm Beach was true," Edwards, who met Wild after the FBI started investigating, explains. That would especially be true if at home, sometimes asking for it would be asking for it. Photograph: Courtesy of Netflix We’d beat ourselves up for falling asleep doing homework and would go from morning to afternoon to midnight, again, seven days a week and for the better half of Christmas break, feeling that we will never be enough. Unfortunately, however, that does not happen for everyone- or it happens too late. Change ). So no, they can’t just simply walk away from it. ... Shawna Rivera, one of the voices in Filthy Rich. "You tell yourself that you didn't know for sure and you never really saw anything," Scully says, "but that's all just rationalization. Ultimately, whatever evidence victims can provide of having survived abusive circumstances, especially as children, and be that as clear as day, it still remains ‘insufficient’ for those who refuse to accept as admissible whatever they have a hard time relating to. It’s that something that we all secretly hope shines through, isn’t it? Shawna Rivera is known for her work on Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich (2020). That was not what would get me into my masters. However, if chance had it that we were born into poverty and thrust head-first into every form of injustice conceivable under the law; if we were raised by broken families and exposed to every form of violence that either leaves marks or doesn’t, and that was the only way of life we’d ever gotten a taste of, without ever being given the chance to be weaned off it, then there wouldn’t be much that we were dealt to work with, to neatly stack together as evidence of our successes, of our worth as a person, that we could put forth for social scrutiny, now wouldn’t it?Still, we would have to survive somehow. Collectively, we still find it appropriate to demand tangible evidence from victims that we can then dissect ourselves; we deconstruct their lives and look for signs in their actions or words, past or present, that could point to them making it all up, for money or fame. Enter your email address to follow and receive notifications of new posts by email. ( Log Out / But his demise was hardly the final word in this sordid saga that began almost 20 years ago. She felt as though they believed her, but no one ever followed up, she says. A private investigator who assisted the accusers' attorneys remembers a probation officer telling him, "'What would you like us to do? In high-school and college-that is, if privilege, luck and hard work conspired to get us that far-, all we did was reproduce the work of others, endlessly, and credit them for it. Rarely a thank you, because what would they be thankful for? Shawna Rivera confessed that she watched her father and stepmother beat one of her stepbrothers to death in their home. Steve Scully, a former Epstein employee, says he once saw a male guest of Epstein's on the island completely naked and surrounded by three topless girls, and he "left immediately." Experiencing violence in its most brutal forms had been part of her life since she could remember and unfortunately, it was something that she would continue to be part of after meeting Epstein. Perhaps the most hurtful part of this reality is that it could have been avoided, and yet it still remained inevitable for Shawna, and for all of his victims. Lethargic, I guess that’s how the middle ground would look like, most of the time. The need for it, then, could throw us into a cycle of abuse that we come to know as normal. Epstein is the subject of Lisa Bryant’s absorbing four-part Netflix series, Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich, which methodically lays bare his long and repelling record as a serial exploiter of women. As we are taught to seek appreciation outside ourselves, by every structure of society and by the finest and highest systems of education we now have in place, it’s only natural that it becomes the only way we know how to function. Validation makes us feel seen, heard, real. They include 14-year-old Shawna Rivera who had already traumatized by her family when she met Epstein. Most, if not all of Epstein’s victims, share a similar story of abuse, of negligence and of having been let down by every social system that was allegedly designed to protect them- for the entirety of their lives, before meeting him and after that. They have ties to a variety of high-paying, often glamorous fields that pertain to the entertainment industry, such as professional sports, modelling, film, theatre, music and dance. Overall, we’d be deemed worthy or less than based on how high we ranked up the alphabet- an otherwise random collection of letters, if it weren’t for society ascribing to it fortune-telling properties, mapping it like a linear constellation, turning it into a universally acceptable form of divination. The luxurious settings that Epstein operated in, represented here by scene-setting footage of ocean views, glittering swimming pools and eight-figure real estate, the ominous thwack of a croquet mallet or the back of a gardener trimming tall privacy hedges representing the ways of the idle rich, look all the more ostentatious against the shots of the lower-to-middle-class neighborhoods where his victims—many from broken homes, some victims of previous abuse, some abusing drugs and alcohol or the children of addicts, all underage—came from.
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